Wednesday, 2 July 2014
I have just had the dubious honour of attending my ELEVENTH annual school sports day.
I am seriously expecting some kind of award to be handed out to me for long term service.
Quite frankly....I am bored of it.
The process never changes. Why would it? The school have this one locked down and they ain't budging from their routine for no one. Not even the mum sat at the back on the chairs who didn't look up once from her book. (That was not me btw...I did look on enviously though.)
I explained my Sports Day issues to the children in the car one morning:
Kid 1: "Are you coming to sports day?"
Notquitesupermom: *big sigh* "Do I really have to?"
Kid 1 & 2: "YESSSSSSS."
Notquitesupermom: "no offence or anything kids, but if you aren't actually doing anything in it then sports day is pretty boring to watch. If I wanted to watch you bounce a ball up to a plastic bucket, put the ball in the bucket then run back to a line I could have set that up in the garden ANYTIME during the past years. And then I could have watched drinking a glass of wine lying on the sunlounger."
My major problem with sports day is that my children go to a lovely, non competitive school. Sports day is divided into very PC and non discriminatory teams based on age. It's all about the team work.
It's soooo BORING.
I want to see proper competition. I want to know EXACTLY how rubbish my kids are, or alternatively, like I said to the ex MR G: "We could potentially have a Usain Bolt on our hands...but we will NEVER EVER KNOW as the children have never been allowed to compete with each other."
How well my children can run in a straight line, or throw a bean bag into a hoop, is never going to make a difference to how much I love them, or how amazing they are. But GODDAMMIT I want some sort of gauge of their sporting prowess. Just so I KNOW.
There is also no DANGER. I remember school sports days when you would get red grazed knees from the sack race, skipping ropes would get tied together in a "never to be unravelled again" web of knots where you could potentially take your competitor down with a good strong tug. Ankles would be tied together and arms tied behind backs in the three legged race. I bet Christian Grey probably really loved those races when he was at school. The threat of face planting into the turf was always prevalent and you quickly worked out to work together as a team to avoid that happening in front of the entire school. As you got older we started to have hurdles, which are DESIGNED to trip you up and actual javelins that could ACTUALLY impale someone if misthrown.
At sports day now the children throw foam swords.
There is not even the opportunity for potential humiliation to be used as a motivational tool for self improvement as they are all in it together for the good of the team. There is no overweight kid huffing and puffing round the track thinking "i'm not going to be last like this next year." There is no obnoxious little shit bursting into tears because they ALWAYS win and this year they didn't. Children need to learn failure and to suck it up. I want to see the really competitive kids trying to elbow other kids out the way in their race to be the best at the running race. I want to see which child is a sneaky little cheating bastard and PICKS UP the egg with their fingers rather than putting it onto the spoon using the side of their foot and some nifty leg raising. We spent HOURS perfecting this skill during PE.
These days, it's just dull. And I still have to sit on teeny tiny seats that can barely fit one arse cheek on, in the heat, pretending I care that some other person's kid can run while holding a ball because they are on my kids team.
Might take a book next year!
Egg and Spoon Champion 1986